Lessons learned from fucked up people

Draft two!

So this  topic was a request and one I feel strongly about so I will attempt it again.

The first draft really went off on a tangent and was coming across as directly written to/about one particular fucked up person. I want this to just be a simple list. Something I won't ramble on and on about or else it won't end up like a list...so here we go again.

1) Before embarking on a "great" idea, sit with it a while. Research it a bit. Especially if it involves spending money you would need to borrow.

2) Do not lend money to family or friends or hell, anyone. It is a BAD idea. They get your money, they think "Oh hell, they don't NEED it, so no hurry to pay it back" then you get to watch them piss away money and you better bite your tongue because they do NOT want lessons on budgeting or WANT versus NEED.

3) How great of a parent you are. You think you suck at it...but just look around, I guarantee, you can find fucked up people fucking up future generations. Hell, just go to Walmart....can't spend less than a hundred bucks, can't not see a bad parent....

4)Fucked up people tend to be stuck somewhere in time...probably the part of their life that was the best....learn from them...hair styles change, clothing changes....get out of the past already!

5)We all make mistakes...fucked up people make the same ones over and over and over....try to look at your life from someone else's point of view...are you constantly whining about the same things...then stop FUCKING repeating your mistakes!

6) Fucked up people don't want advice from others, hell they don't even think they NEED the advice. Their's is the good life....we are the ones that have it all wrong...

7) Fucked up people surround themselves with more fucked up people....it ends up as one big cluster fuck of fuck ups...you need to avoid being around this...it is both sad and irritating at the same time.

and finally

8) When a fucked up person wants you out of their life...don't fight it....you may find your happiness has suddenly increased by infinity-fold


To the person who requested this post....I love you dearly but will not publish any comments which throws any particular fucked up people under the bus.

This post is intended merely to guide others in identifying fucked up people and to realize they do have a purpose..to help us all appreciate our lives.